Flash Builder 4 Security error accessing url Destination: DefaultHTTP

I have built a FB4 application which accesses a .NET web service of a partner company. The app runs just fine in FB4 development environment, but won't work when published to my server. I can not figure out how to get past the following error:

Security error accessing url Destination: Default开发者_Go百科HTTP

It is unlikely that I will get a crossdomain.xml file on their server, so I'm trying to get it to work using a proxy. The proxy.php is located in the same directory as the swf, and it works just fine if I use it directly in the browser.

The following is what I currently have setup:

proxy.php:

<?php
$session = curl_init(trim(urldecode($_GET['url'])));                   // Open the Curl session
curl_setopt($session, CURLOPT_HEADER, false);          // Don't return HTTP headers
curl_setopt($session, CURLOPT_RETURNTRANSFER, true);   // Do return the contents of the call
$xml = curl_exec($session);                            // Make the call
header("Content-Type: text/xml");                  // Set the content type appropriately
echo $xml;        // Spit out the xml
curl_close($session); ?> 

The code in Flash Builder 4 (I'm using a Webservice object in FB4):

wsdl = http://example.com/autoben/proxy2.php?url=http://staging.partnerCompany.net/api/v01_00/theservice.asmx?wsdl

The flash player is version 10.x

I'm obviously not understanding the new security rules built into the latest Flash player.

A screenshot of the error can be seen here:

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Sounds like a cross domain policy issue. Check here http://livedocs.adobe.com/flex/3/html/help.html?content=security2_04.html for Adobe's advice.

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I can't see any obvious reason to why this should not work in concept. So it's likely some minor detail tripping this up.

I would recommend using a web debug proxy to work out exactly what is going across the pipes, I personally prefer Charles but something like Fiddler should work too.

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Make sure you're using relative paths to get the url and not absolute, if you go to http://mydomain.com and it tries to get the proxy url from http://www.mydomain.com (www. subdomain) a security error will be thrown.