Programmatically make a Header item 'hot' or 'selected'

I'm using a Win32 Header. I want to make it so that the header item I click on stays 's开发者_JAVA百科elected' or looks selected until I press another one. I want to avoid disabling it for aesthetic reasons.

Thanks

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If this header is part of a listview, you can provide a visual clue with ListView_SetSelectedColumn